A question I’ve been asked my whole life is: “How do you know that you’re really a lesbian?” As much as I love the answer I’m not a lesbian, so I try to answer it with a bit of humor. I’ll just say I’m not so sure that this is true. I know what I want, and I know what I don’t want. And that’s why I’m a lesbian. Because I don’t want to be like everyone else.
I can’t speak for anyone else, but I am not a lesbian. And that applies to my feelings, my ideas, and my beliefs. You know, if you think so.
This is one of those times when I feel like I need to address a rather important truth, but I think it’s better if we leave it out of the headline or it will get confusing. Yes, I am a lesbian. Yes, I am attracted to other lesbians. And yes, I am a lesbian. But, I am not a lesbian. I am not attracted to other lesbians, and I am certainly not a lesbian.
If you think I should be the person to put your feelings into a headline, you don’t get to decide! I am also not a lesbian, I am not attracted to other lesbians, and I am definitely not a lesbian. So why am I now the one to describe my feelings and beliefs? Because I do get to decide what my feelings and beliefs are, but they aren’t my feelings and beliefs. They are my beliefs and my feelings that I believe that I am a lesbian.
Well, it turns out that when you’re not a lesbian you are still a lesbian, so why do you think we should put those words in our headlines then? Because I think it makes it more obvious. Like, “the reason I am not attracted to other lesbians is that I am a lesbian.” I think that’s pretty self-evident.
Like, I am a lesbian because I am a lesbian. Like, I am a bisexual because I am a bisexual. Like, I am a dude because I am a dude. Those are pretty self-evident. But not exactly. Because I might feel like I feel some parts of myself arent attracted to other women. But because I am a lesbian, you can’t tell me that I am just lying and that I should just tell everyone that I am a lesbian.
It’s not like I’m lying, but you know what? I’m not.
Because if you want to be a lesbian, but you want to get on a horse, then you should show up in a movie and be a lesbian. But you don’t really know who you are.
Yes, I have a gay relationship with a woman. So I know what youre going to do. So I dont really want to be a lesbian. I just want to get on a horse.
What if we want to learn to swim? The thing is that you need to know, and if you want to learn to swim, then you need to swim to learn to swim. So if you swim to a beach, then you need to learn to swim to learn to swim. You know what I mean? I want to learn to swim. If you swim to a beach, then you learn to swim. If you swim to a beach, then you learn to swim to learn to swim.